Here’s how to deal with a fresh breakup

How to deal with breakup
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Whether your relationship lasted for months or even years, breakups are never easy on anyone, even if you are the one who decided to break the ties. But a breakup is something that is inevitable in some cases, and the feeling of heartbreak leaves a void inside you. You may feel like you would never get over it but no, this is life and it is no lie that time heals all wounds.

However, all you need to do is to take the control of your trauma into your own hands and speed up the process of your healing. 

Here are some tips to help you deal with a breakup.

Acknowledge and express your feelings

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A big thing like a breakup can change your life in many ways and can also trigger a plethora of feelings in you. You may feel some things that you have never felt before and some of you may even deny these feelings. But no, this is not a way of dealing with your feelings. You have lost somebody (a major part of your life in some cases) and you have all the right to feel anything about it. Allowing yourself to face these feelings could often be scary and you may therefore not allow yourself to grieve properly leading to being stuck with your feelings. 

Take care of your body

How to deal with breakups

The grief brought in by breakups is huge and can often lead to you forgetting to take care of your own body. But this is one of the biggest mistakes a person makes in his/her post-breakup period. You need to realize your worth and focus on your mental as well as physical health. Rebuilding the healthy relationship you lost with your own self is very significant. In order to do so start by exercising, practicing meditation, spa, and even booking your therapy sessions. 

Do things you love

After that breakup, you may find it very difficult to enjoy the things you used to enjoy pre-breakup. This is that phase of your life where all you see are negative and painful things and the good things take the back seat. But the best way to get over this feeling of being dull is by forcing yourself to get out of your constant grieving zone and do the things you used to love.

Connect with your loved ones

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The grief that comes from a breakup may sometimes be so strong that it ends up leaving you alone. You may end up pushing away your family, friends, or anyone who tries to get through to you. You may be going through a time where it is difficult for you to trust anyone but you need to realize that is actually the time when you need people around you when you need people to support you. All you need to pay attention to is choosing the right people, choosing the people who value you and your feeling and you will see how connecting with them helps you.

Learn from the breakup

Lastly, you need to finally accept that the relationship that once existed has finally ended. Even if it was nobody’s fault the relationship has ended and you cannot do anything about it. You don’t have to blame the other person or even yourself but all you need to do is learn from your experience and make yourself a better person for the future.