8 Signs you should give up and let go of the person you love

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Change is the only constant in life. Everything and everyone changes, even feelings change, and it is completely normal. It may be hard to accept but it’s still normal. It might be a situation where you are trying to save a relationship that has already met its dead-end which is not visible to you yet. But you are still draining yourself trying to save something that is already dead which is completely useless.

Here are some signs that may tell you that it is actually the time that you should give up on your love.

1. You both have unsolvable fights

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If you have noticed a pattern of constant fights in your relationship and that too the ones which are unsolvable, the ones where none of you is trying to put in efforts for solving the fight is a red flag. It is a sign that you are just not interested in making things work in your relationship and now is the time you should give up on the relationship.

2. Efforts are no longer two ways

When you see that you are the only one putting effort and those efforts are not being reciprocated in any sense it’s a sign to give up on that person now. No matter how much you love them or want the relationship to work you know you would not be able to stay for long with them without any effort so just give up and move on.

3. You both are not able to talk openly

Communication is the key to every relationship. If you and your partner have lost the comfort of communicating with each other, your relationship is meant to go downhill. If you can’t talk about what you feel, what you want, and what is going on you are just not going to make it. So just give up already.

4. Your relationship is becoming abusive

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An abusive partner is a deal-breaker, if you are feeling that you are being mentally, emotionally, or physically abused in your relationship you should just take a step back from it. Your relationship is not meant to abuse you in any sense and if that’s not the case just give up on it no matter how much you love your partner.

5. You both are incompatible together

Being compatible is very important for a relationship to last. If you and your partner are not compatible together you will not be able to make it toll the end. And what is a relationship if it cannot make it to the end? So, take the big step and give up on your love.

6. The relationship is bringing you constant pain

Your relationship should be your happy place, it is supposed to bring you happiness and not pain. So, if you don’t feel happy with your partner and the relationship is bringing in nothing but sadness just let it go. Let your partner go, let your love go so that you can find happiness again in your life.

7. When you don’t feel the same care and love you did once

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Nothing is constant in this world and this is the harsh reality you have to accept. If you feel that your love and care for your partner is fading away with time it is wise to talk about the same with them. You should accept the fact that your feelings have changed and you no longer need them in your life, so just give up. It may sound selfish but it is the only way in which you will be true to yourself. 

8. When you want to give up

Is your gut telling you to give up on your love? If yes, don’t ignore it. Not wanting to love someone anymore is a good reason in itself to not love them anymore. So, if you don’t feel like working on your love don’t force yourself to do so and just give up. It’s not selfish.