8 Signs you are with the wrong partner

Signs you are with the wrong partner
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Yes, it is true that the heart desires what it desires. However, have you considered that the heart can be akin to a little baby, occasionally desiring things that may not align with your actual needs? What you truly deserve and require may be far superior to what your heart yearns for.

Nonetheless, controlling the desires of the heart is not always feasible. At times, it becomes necessary to defy its inclinations and instead heed the guidance of the mind. Here are some telltale signs that indicate you may be involved with the wrong person.

1. You can’t be your real self around them

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We all know the importance of being our own self and what can being fake do to us in the long term. So, if you can’t be your real self with your partner what is the reason for you to be with them? If you can’t be the person you are with your partner are you even with the right partner? If you have to constantly wear a mask when you are around your partner to make them happy then you are with the wrong person.

2. You are shy to show them off to your parents and friends

You are bound to feel confident and secure with the right person so if you feel hesitant to introduce your partner to your family or friends even when the time is right you surely are with the wrong person.  

3. They drain your energy

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Your partner should be your happy place and spending time with them should never exhaust you so if you feel that you feel emotionally exhausted and drained whenever you are with them then you surely are with the wrong person.

4. You both avoid difficult conversations

Do you feel that all you have with your partner are just those meaningless and small conversations and whenever there is the time to have those real and tough conversations you both run away from it? If yes, then you surely are doing it wrong because you are with the wrong person because the right one knows the importance of these tough conversations and would force you to have them whenever needed.

5. You can’t imagine a future with them

Does the thought of having a future with your partner scare you? If yes, then you surely are with the wrong person because with the right person the thought of the future shouldn’t scare but excite you. You might be scared to be alone but being with the wrong partner should not be your comfort.

6. They never apologize

Every relationship goes through many ups and downs and if your partner is never ready to take responsibility for their mistakes and is never ready to apologize then you might be with the wrong person because the right person would do anything to save their relationship.

7. They don’t respect you

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Respect is a very important part of any relationship and if your partner is failing in making you feel respected privately as well as publicly then you surely are with the wrong person. The right person knows how to make their partner feel respected and wanted and if you are not feeling this in your relationship you probably are with the wrong person.

8. They are all about you and your needs

If you feel happy that you are with the right person because that person is all about you and your needs then we are sorry to burst your happy bubble because you actually are with the wrong person because this person is putting you over themselves which would obviously not work for a long time. 

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